FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions

Erotic Massage 4 Her is a Professional Outcall Erotic Massage Service for Women in Cape Town. It’s run by Tristin David, a highly skilled Male Massage Therapist who offers customized treatments from 2 to 4hrs(or longer) in duration, in the convenience & privacy of client’s Hotels or Homes. 

An outcall massage means that your massage therapist will travel out to your location rather than you going to a massage studio. This allows for a greater degree of discretion & privacy, as well as safety & convenience. This is often the preferred option for local & international female visitors to Cape Town, staying at Hotels in the city and not wanting to risk going to seedy, potentially unsafe spots

An Erotic Massage for Women, as performed through this service, Erotic Massage 4 Her, is a form of full body massage that focuses on creating sexual arousal and pleasure. In this context, it is performed by a qualified Male Massage Therapist who uses various techniques to stimulate and awaken the erogenous zones of the body.

The massage generally begins with gentle, non-sexual touches to help the woman relax and feel comfortable. As the massage progresses, the therapist may use more sensual techniques, such as kneading and stroking the breasts, thighs, and genital area in a skillful manner.

The extent to which the erotic stimuation & pleasure progresses is dependant on each client’s specific boundaries & desires. Erotic Massage for Women should always be consensual and respectful. It is vital that the therapist and client communicate at various points throughout the massage to ensure that both the receiver and the giver are on the same page and most importantly, that the woman is comfortable with the experience as it is unfolding.

The goal of Erotic Massage for Women is to create a joyful and intimate experience that enhances the woman’s sexual desire and pleasure.

No, the massage therapist will bring everything necessary for the massage, including oils, towels, and a massage table.

No, you don’t need to shave or wax before a yoni massage. Your massage therapist will work with whatever hair you have or don’t have. It is always advisable to do with feels more comfortable to you & if that makes you feel sexier, even better. Your therapist will welcome you just as you are, perfectly you.

As with all massages, it’s advisable to take a shower or soak in a bath tub before your session. It’s not necessary to apply oils or lotions on your skin afterwards as your massage therapist will be using quality, hydrating massage oils on your body and these penetrate freshly cleaned skin better. You may also want to avoid eating a heavy meal within an hour or two before your massage. Although it is not advisable to drink excessive amounts of alcohol before a massage, a glass of wine is perfectly acceptable if it helps you relax and get in the mood for pleasure.

Erotic Massage 4 Her offers massage sessions in durations of 2, 3, 4 & even 5hrs. You get to choose from Sensual, Erotic & Tantric Massage, which all include Yoni Massage, and can either have these on their own or combine them according to your preferences. These are quality, detailed massages which involve stimulation & relaxation of every inch of your body. As a Goddess, the time spent worshipping your body should never be rushed.

No, Erotic Massage is an incredibly intimate experience that requires both the giver and receiver to be fully present, not just physically but mentally as well. This is not possible with the distracting energy of spectators in the treatment area. This is your sacred space for healing, nurturing and pleasure. The attention & focus has to be 100% on you at all times. All sessions are therefore strictly on a 1-on-1 basis.

While orgasm is not the main goal of an erotic massage, having an experienced massage therapist skillfully massage & stimulate your yoni does lead to orgasm more often than not. Some women may even experience multiple orgasms, depending on how much they surrender to the experience and their ability to connect with their bodies. The main thing to remember here is to not put pressure on yourself to reach the goal of orgasm but rather to focus on all aspects of the experience and to allow the energy to move through your body, while your senses take delight in all the pleasure being bestowed upon you.

1. Call directly on 076 963 7786 to discuss your specific requirements, boundaries and ask any questions you need clarity upon. Please note that private numbers will NOT be answered so ensure that your number is not withheld when you call.
2. Once a suitable date & time is agreed upon, you will commit to your booking by doing payment to reserve your slot. Your booking is finalized once you’ve sent through proof of payment. Payment options are EFT & credit card through a payment link which will be emailed to you. A 5% processing fee is applicable on card payments. 
3. Thereafter all that is left is for you to supply your address where the treatment will take place. Your therapist will arrive a few mins before the scheduled start time to set up the massage table & create a relaxing ambiance for your session. If you are staying at a Hotel, you may SMS or WhatsApp your room number to Tristin once you’ve checked in.

The booking process for international clients is pretty similar to that for clients based within South Africa.

1. Call directly on 076 963 7786 to discuss your specific requirements, boundaries and ask any questions you need clarity upon. Please note that private numbers will NOT be answered so ensure that your number is not withheld when you call. You may call on WhatsApp if you like or as a regular international call.
2. Once a suitable date & time is agreed upon, you will commit to your booking by doing payment to reserve your slot. Payments for international clients are through a credit card payment link which will be emailed to you. A 5% processing fee is applicable on card payments.
3. Thereafter all that is left is for you to supply your address where the treatment will take place. Your therapist will arrive a few mins before the scheduled start time to set up the massage table & create a relaxing ambiance for your session. If you are staying at a Hotel, you may SMS or WhatsApp your room number to Tristin once you’ve checked in.